MohanTara 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 What do u guys think? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
voltagegal 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 I never date a guy, that's cheap and hoars do that. I follow monica lession. If I like someone, I am his. If he doesn't like me that's his problem, not mine. Dating is a game. If I, went for dating and boy take me because he think I am beautiful, he is a fool. Dating don't last, Even true love doesn't last sometime, but that is exceptional. I am not dating gal. voltagegal Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MohanTara 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 U,re funny.. By going out in a date, It doesnt make u look cheap.. Ufff... What a narrow-minded gal.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
voltagegal 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 U,re funny.. By going out in a date, It doesnt make u look cheap.. Ufff... What a narrow-minded gal.. 69184[/snapback] Yes, you are wide-minded. I have no problem with that. I am being honest shouldn't hurt somebody. It's not my cup of tea. Cause,most people even take dating services to meet new peoples.. In other hand, you've less chance to see the honesty in dating. Only physical attribute shines in date. That is cheap. voltagegal Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
innocent princess 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 dating is a savvy of women. It is upto you use it right or wrong. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
soulfly 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 Voltage ji, dating bhandaima yeslai naramro sense ma linu ta hundaina ni .Not only beautiful are going on dating others are too going .As u said ,kt haru lai dating lana chahancha it doesnt mean that tapai ko faida uthauna khojcha ,He may like to be ur best frens want to know more about it .But to know someone or something from close is not crime haina ra .As u said its a game ,yes its game but one should know how to play it.Honesty huncha but first one have to belive on the person . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
The Specialist 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 (edited) He may like to be ur best frens want to know more about it .But to know someone or something from close is not crime haina ra .As u said its a game ,yes its game but one should know how to play it.Honesty huncha but first one have to belive on the person . 69199[/snapback] I am not being sacastic but voltagegal is right. In terms of meaning dating is not made to make friends, Ask for love.........if she agrees ...........take her..........if she doesn't.........give a damn. no offense to anyone. Edited March 28, 2005 by The Specialist Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dream_noon 0 Report post Posted March 28, 2005 I never date a guy, that's cheap and hoars do that. voltagegal 69182[/snapback] dating is imported eastern culture n got lots of pit falls but still it shows the freedom to express yourself before your beloved one , some may have intensions of instant fun but still many prefer it the way to know your partner better ,like u may have fallen deeply in the virtua world but when u go to dating it shows the ground reality of both minds Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MohanTara 0 Report post Posted March 29, 2005 I never date a guy, that's cheap and hoars do that. I follow monica lession. If I like someone, I am his. If he doesn't like me that's his problem, not mine Hahaha, Voltage Gal,u're *ermm an interesting person..* If u follow Monica's steps, i'm not sure if ur love 4ever be requite... So u're saying u'll prefer an arranged marriage<cos u NEVER will date a guy..> I would agree 4 a start, the beginning of courtship might entail a little bit of pretension. This is because we human r equipped with mechanism 2 filter out losers. People who r not good enough will be excluded. Therefore, it is important 2 give good impression so as not 2 scare the other party away so early in the beginning. Deceit constitutes a major setback in a relationship. Do you equate putting on an act as a form of deceit? I think failure 2 reveal one true self 2 a certain extent isn't considered deceit. Neither is it an attempt 2 impress! Rather, it is just human nature 2 be more accomodating or easy going on friends, especially those courting couples. After marriage, more of the true self is revealed coz the couple views the upgrading of the relationship, hence a time 2 create a better understanding of each other. You are then 2 make a decision whether you can accept this person. The key to success in marriage, is 2 accept your spouse. On the contrary, failure to reveal one true self to a great extent is an undisputed case of deceit. When such marriage fails eventually, it can be said that there is a change in the person since marriage, coz the person thinks that there is no need to act anymore. .........hmm a little giddy now coz I think that my theory is somehow too complex for my own understanding!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
voltagegal 0 Report post Posted March 29, 2005 On the contrary, failure to reveal one true self to a great extent is an undisputed case of deceit. When such marriage fails eventually, it can be said that there is a change in the person since marriage, coz the person thinks that there is no need to act anymore. .........hmm a little giddy now coz I think that my theory is somehow too complex for my own understanding!! 69235[/snapback] erm, ... In my words, love doesn't ask why ,how, when and what , it happens and nobody needs to know the consequental prediction.That's not my problem. I would have felt very much pleasure to walk in one road than, dating, (etc..) Living with an act of dating is like play for me.If, (this) one heart , follow the act , will never get pure love in the lifetime.Dating will lead me back to the cheap door. For the fire and the faith, I will see from the true me in the game of love. You guys think, the socializing and spending time with a variety of people for the purpose of having fun and practicing of dating one person at a time for the purpose of testing if a relationship would work we refer as "serial monogamy" vis-a-vis "mini-marriage". That is cheap social way of living.Ideally, the sole criterion for dating someone is CHEAP. The difference for someone who is ready for a committed relationship and CHEAP DATER will consciously sort and screen prospects until they find a high-likelihood candidate, then enter a "pre-committed" relationship.Beside that the sole idea of DATING IS CHEAP. I WILL SAY GOODBYE .....,RATHER........ voltagegal Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites